Okie. What I did today is what I normally used to do.
So of course, firstly is went school again lor ~
Boring life right ?
Keep repeating the same old things you do. =(
Went school so call Lans Shop ?
But of course, it is free.
Was there playing DOTA.
Samuel - Yr 2 students was there with his group of friends, all are watching my direction.
Was so P.S lor ~ =x
I had make up my mind very well now. - Maybe not yet ~
And I won't tell anyone about anything any more !
Shall open my eyes big and look (WHO IS A TRUE FRIEND TO ME) !
Because I discover something !~
That's really hurt me lots ~
Although, it already a past tense ~
Should learn more from (PA) - Let's name her that.
I like the way she handling stuff and so on.
Thanks for giving me ideas =)
Great Counsellor ~
Hmm... Edwin can be my counsellor as well =P
Ha ~ He always give me comments ^^
Thanks ~ But please hor ! Don't piss me off =(
Hee ...
By the way, if you realise, I changed ~
I started to stop talking or talk less with some of my friends.
Forever only trust XUAN !!! LOVE HER LOTS !!!
I know her for the past 7 years ...
Best Friends =)
Oh Ya ~ Great News !
I realise, I didn't feel gastric pain any more.
HA !!! Because I starts to eat my meals on time =)
Bye Bye Gastric Pain !
But bad things always come. =(
Now a days, I having bad headache.
I think due to I didn't get enough sleep. =(
Pain till I want to bang my head on the wall !!!
0.0 Daddy brought supper for me.
Omgosh ~ Growing Fatter =x
By the way, Kelvin starts sms me agian.
Was ignoring him.
Hang of all his phone call and ignore his message. =x
IRRITATING ~!
Between, shared with you guys.
I just brought Teenage Magazine and I saw these page.
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" LETS TALK ABOUT SEX "
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Q1: How do I say "NO" to sex ?
If a boy is demanding or pressuring you to have sex with him, tell him no !
It can be considered sexual assault or rape, and it's your right to report him to the police.
It's your body and no one should have the right to tell you what to do with it.
Be firm in your beliefs and seek the help of your parents.
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Q2: What in the world are STIs?
STI, or Sexually Transmitted Infection.
( They're also known as Sexually Transmitted Diseases ),
are nasty infections that anyone can contract when they have unprotected sex.
Yup, apart from major dilemmas like HIV and unwanted pregnancies,
you still have loads of things to worry about.
Genital herpes, gonorrhoea and syphilis are just some of the health dangers you're risking
if you take part in sexual activities.
And don't thing you can get away with having oral sex.
Even the deadly HIV can be transmitted through oral sex.
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Q3: When's the right time to have sex ?
In Singapore, the legal age to have sex is 16.
Any younger than that and it's considered statutory rape,
even if both partners are willing.
But the morally right answer is that you should wait till you're older
Teenage girls don't necessarily have the capacity or maturity
to understand the complications that sex might bring.
So instead of rushing into thing, why not wait a little longer ?
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Q4: If I use a condom, I'll never get pregnant or catch an STL ... Right ?
Wrong !
Contraceptive methods like the condom can protect you,
bit it's NEVER 100% guaranteed.
All it does is to minimise the risk of getting an infection.
So no matter how safe you think you are,
you're always at risk if you are sexually active.
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Q5: Why are boys so gross ?
Guys and girls have different views on love and dating.
Each of us expect different things.
Boys are less likely to express their feelings than girls,
and that's why it's difficult for males and females to communicate with each other.
So don't be worried if talking to guys makes you feel disgusted.
They probably feel the same way too!
Just give it some time and you'll start seeing each other in a completely different light.
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Q6: What's this mysterious "pill" I keep hearing about ?
The Pill is a contraceptive measure that sexually active girls take to prevent pregnancy.
Although it's more effective than condoms,
it does NOT stop you from contracting sexually transmitted infections.
The legal age to start taking the Pill is 16,
but any girl must first seek proper advice from parents and doctors.
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Q7: I'm attracted to girls ! Am I a lesbian ?
Finding out that you're attracted to other girls
can be a confusing and disturbing experience.
But fret not,
being physically attracted to other females doesn't necessarily
mean that you're a lesbian or a bisexual.
All those hormones in your developing body are just starting to settle down.
So don't be alarmed if you find yourself admiring other girls.
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